This past week, I headed to Ijebu-ode and Ijebu-igbo to honour my cousin's mother-in-law, who passed away earlier in the month. As I sat listening to the testimonies of her life and people who had interacted with her, I saw her passion for a cause she believed in, someone who believed in God and put her trust in him. 

One particular man stood out to me, who, from what I heard, was her good friend. Aside from what he said, there were the hymns he sang. He had a hymn to buttress the things he said, and that was fascinating to me. The service took place at an Anglican church, and it's their custom to sing hymns, but I am not used to that I just know praise and worship songs and the types of songs we sing nowadays don't even have the depth of words or the richness. I made the decision in that moment to find a hymn book and start singing hymns in my home. 

The Bible talks about how it's better to go to a house of mourning, and I get why. There's the reminder away from your busy life, how fickle life can be, the reminder that we are mortals, here today and can be gone tomorrow, a reminder to keep our mission on earth as the focus and not get carried away. I was reminded of all of that this weekend. 

I was with my sister, and she asked a question 

This got my thinking too, but my answer to her is that we are all more connected than we realise, and eventually the people who need to know will find out. She said that's one of the questions that keeps her up at night. I, on the other hand, am not worried about the people finding out, just ensuring that I do what needs to be done before I leave this earth, and I don't mind leaving, honestly. This earth is too stressful, but I don't want to sound like I am sad or depressed. Lol. 

Parenting away from home

Road to Ijebu-ode 

Before we got to Ijebu-ode, we had to go to Ijede first to my parents, because I am still a child and I had to follow my mum to Ijebu-ode instead of going myself. The road to Ijebu-ode was not very smooth. It's sad that in this time in our country, we still have bad roads. This bad road lengthened our trip to 2 hours. I think it should have been 1 hour maximum. Phew. The road trip was nice, though. Sights and sounds are not so bad. It was interesting to hear my mum complain so much about the bad roads, more like lament, really. I think the woman is over this country. Notably, we saw so many "estates" with just a small fence that the real estate people would've used to sell and collect millions from people who want to "invest in their future". They just had a small gate and vast lands. Maybe I will be the one crying in 10 years when the place "opens up". 

Home

What meal I enjoyed this week.

My husband got me this Salad from Foodies in Lekki Phase 1. Chicken salad. I think it was the pepper that made me enjoy it. 

My current dilemma

I want to start walking next week. I chose a long-distance walk in the morning. I am contemplating whether I really want to do this because it's supposed to be a long-term commitment and not a one-off. I have stopped walking in my estate because it gets so boring seeing the same thing. I figured if I walked a longer route outside the estate, it would be more interesting for me. I am trying to choose now if I want to help my lethargy or just continue with my sedentary lifestyle. I will let you know what I decided next week. 

I am trying to blog more about my progress, so I will share about my week more often here in as much detail as I can. I really hope it helps me scratch my blogging itch. 

PS: We have 3 field trips this coming week, you can check the options out here, book your slot!

Being a parent is a constant learning curve. When it comes to your child's nutrition, navigating conflicting advice can feel overwhelming. Let's bust some common myths and set the record straight for healthier, happier little eaters.

Myth #1: My Child doesn’t need special milk, they can use the family milk.

Fact: Milk is a great source of protein, however special milk like Peak 456 contain extra fortified nutrients to bridge nutrient gaps in their diet and support their growth and development. Special milk like Peak 456 Growing Up Milk, contain DHA to also help with brain development. 

Fact: While fruit juice contains some vitamins, it's also loaded with sugar. opt for whole fruits instead. They offer fiber, essential for digestion, and keep your child feeling fuller for longer. Plus, biting into a juicy apple or crunchy pear is a much more enjoyable experience!

Myth #3: Skipping Meals is Bad for Growing Kids.

Fact: Kids don't always eat like clockwork. Picky eaters and busy schedules can throw mealtimes off kilter. Don't stress! Offer healthy snacks throughout the day like nuts, fruits, or whole-grain crackers. If your child gets a balanced intake of nutrients over time, skipping a meal occasionally won't harm them.

Myth #4: All Carbs are Bad.

Fact: Carbs are the body's primary source of energy, crucial for growing kids! The key is to choose complex carbohydrates over simple ones. Whole grains, fruits, and vegetables are packed with fiber and nutrients, providing sustained energy for all their adventures.

Myth #5: "Sugar Rush" Makes Kids Hyperactive.

Fact: While sugar might give a temporary energy boost, research doesn't definitively link it to hyperactivity. More likely culprits are fatigue, lack of sleep, or excitement from an activity. Focus on offering a balanced diet with plenty of protein and healthy fats alongside carbohydrates to keep energy levels steady.

Myth #6: Multivitamins Ensure My Child Gets All the Nutrients They Need.

Fact: Multivitamins can be a helpful supplement, but they shouldn't replace a healthy diet. Focus on offering a variety of whole foods from each food group – fruits, vegetables, whole grains, lean protein, and healthy fats. This ensures your child gets the full spectrum of vitamins and minerals needed for optimal growth and development.

Myth #7: Organic Food is Always Healthier.

Fact: While organic food may be free of pesticides, there's no guarantee it's more nutritious. The key is to prioritize fresh, seasonal produce whenever possible. Washing fruits and vegetables thoroughly removes any lingering residues.

Myth #8: Kids Won't Eat Healthy Food if it Doesn't Look Appealing.

Fact: Presentation is key! Engage your little chef in meal prep. Let them choose colorful fruits and veggies, arrange their food in fun shapes on the plate, or let them help decorate with a sprinkle of edible glitter (yes, it exists!).

Myth #9: Bribing with Dessert is the Only Way to Get Kids to Eat Vegetables.

Fact: Bribery can create a negative association with healthy foods. Instead, focus on making mealtimes an enjoyable experience. Eat together as a family, have conversations, and let them explore new flavors. Offer fun dips like hummus or guacamole to make veggies more exciting.

Few notes to remember:

• Every child is different. Some are naturally picky, while others are adventurous eaters. Be patient and persistent.

• Lead by example. Eating healthy foods, yourself shows your child the importance of good nutrition.

• Make mealtimes a fun, social experience.

• Don't force-feed your child. It can create a negative association with food.

By focusing on a balanced diet, making healthy choices fun, and debunking these common myths, you can set your child on the path to a healthy relationship with food for years to come. For tips and tricks on healthy nutrition, visit the Peak 456 website.

The Nigerian skincare industry just witnessed a major milestone with the official launch of Eucerin, the globally recognised dermatological skincare brand by Beiersdorf, makers of NIVEA. Held at the prestigious Marriott Hotel in Lagos on Friday March 28, 2025, the event brought together dermatologists, skincare experts, pharmacists, and beauty enthusiasts for an immersive experience into the science of safe and effective skincare.

L-R: Country Manager, Beiersdorf Nigeria, Oladele Adeyole; Regional Medical Manager, Africa & Middle East, Beiersdorf, Nathalie Gemayel; Consultant Dermatologist, UPTH & President, Nigerian Association of Dermatologists, Prof. Altraide Dandeson; Commercial Marketing Manager, Central, East & West Africa (CEWA), Beiersdorf, Victor Okafor; Consultant Dermatologist, LUTH & Vice President, Nigerian Association of Dermatologists, Dr. Ayesha Akinkugbe; General Manager, CEWA, Beiersdorf, Mathieu Levasseur, and United Kingdom’s award winning dermatologist and laser consultant, Prof. Firas Al Niami at the launch of Beiersdorf’s Eucerin in Ikeja, Lagos recently

Science Meets Skincare: Addressing Hyperpigmentation

For decades, many Nigerians have turned to harsh, unregulated bleaching products in the quest for even-toned skin. Recognising this challenge, Beiersdorf Nigeria introduced its Eucerin range of scientifically proven products with Thiamidol, a groundbreaking molecule designed to treat hyperpigmentation at its root without compromising the skin’s natural beauty. Unlike hydroquinone and other skin-lightening agents, Thiamidol is a safe, long-term solution that preserves the skin’s normal melanocytes, ensuring that Black skin remains beautiful and healthy.

Country Manager for Beiersdorf Nigeria, Oladele Adeyole, emphasised the urgency of addressing skin bleaching, referencing a 2021 NAFDAC warning about its prevalence. “Beauty is no longer just about healthcare and well-being; it has become a moral issue that needs to be addressed,” he stated, highlighting the need for safe, dermatologically-approved skincare solutions.

Beiersdorf’s General Manager for Central, East and West Africa, Mathieu Levasseur, reinforced the company’s long-standing presence in Nigeria through the NIVEA brand and expressed excitement about expanding with Eucerin, bringing a brand that is rooted in dermatological science and innovation.

 

Real Results from Real Users

There were testimonials from users who had already experienced Eucerin’s products. Angela and Helen, two attendees, shared their journeys with the Day and Night Cream, Triple Effect Serum, SPF 50+ Sun & Blue Light Protection Cream, and Dual Serum. Their stories reinforced the effectiveness of the products, further solidifying Eucerin’s impact in the Nigerian skincare space.

A panel discussion was also led by Prof. Firas Al-Niaimi featuring top dermatologists, including Prof. Ayesha Akinkugbe, Dr. Cynthia Ebie, and Dr. Omatighene Enovo Obaro. The discussion covered product application, dosage, effectiveness, and the economic advantages of dermatologically approved treatments. They also emphasised the superior efficacy of Thiamidol, selected as the best human Tyrosinase inhibitor out of over 50,000 compounds.

 

A Grand Unveiling and an Exciting Future

As the event drew to a close, attendees witnessed a digital unveiling of the new Eucerin range, followed by interactive breakout sessions where they got hands-on experience with the products. 

Dignitaries present included Prof. Dasetima Altraide, President of the Nigerian Association of Dermatologists (NAD), along with several esteemed dermatologists and pharmaceutical professionals. Their presence underscored the significance of this launch and its potential impact on skincare in Nigeria.

With Eucerin’s entry into the Nigerian market, Beiersdorf is championing a shift towards science-backed skincare that is safe, effective, and designed for diverse skin types. As more Nigerians seek solutions that nurture rather than damage their skin, Eucerin stands at the forefront, offering trusted dermatological care for the long term.

It’s 8:21 PM, and I’m sitting on the floor between my children’s beds, typing away. The house is finally quiet, but my mind isn’t. I’m reflecting on the past few days—frustrating, overwhelming days.

I keep wondering: Is it me? Am I just stressed?
Or is it them? Are they just extra overactive this week?
It’s definitely them, right? Because, honestly, this week hasn’t even been that busy.

A few days ago, my son did something, and I spanked him. I don’t know if he was surprised because, while I’m a no-nonsense mum—full of consequences and threats—I rarely spank. But this day? This was one of those days. And honestly, I don’t regret it. It wasn’t one of those moments filled with guilt.

Why Are They Like This?

I don’t like this version of myself that I see when I’m pushed to my limits. The version where my kids act 100x worse when I’m around. Yes, I know it means they feel safe with me, but does it have to be this frustrating?

Why should it take them ten times longer to respond to me? Why do I have to repeat instructions like a broken record?

I’ve even started questioning the basics—like, how important is it really to take a bath every night? I mean, some people don’t bathe daily, right? What’s the actual worst that can happen if I let some things slide? If I let them keep ignoring me?

Motherhood vs. The Internet Version

Girrrrrllllll… I AM TIRED AND TRIGGERED!

I know it’s not just me, and I know it’s not just my kids either. But sometimes, it feels like my kids are the opposite of everyone else’s “good” and “well-behaved” children.

You know the ones—the perfectly captioned, aesthetically curated images with beige backdrops and an angelic child turning a new age. The ones where motherhood looks so effortless, so perfect. But on this side of the internet? Parenting isn’t perfect. My kids aren’t perfect. And right now, I’m just a tired mum, sitting on the floor in the dark, documenting this moment.

Someday Soon, This Too Shall Pass

It’s now 8:33 PM. One kid is still awake, tossing and turning, asking random questions—his restless mind refusing to shut down.

Boy, if you don’t sleep now…

Phew. I don’t know if this rant will make me feel better. But if nothing else, I want to remember this moment. Because someday soon, it will all converge and make sense. Someday soon, this too shall pass.

I still don’t know why my kids have been acting like this (maybe it’s the full moon?), but I’m holding onto hope that tomorrow will be a better day.

There’s a sweet spot in early motherhood, right around six weeks postpartum. The sleepless nights start to ease up (a little), your body feels somewhat healed, and you and your baby begin to settle into a rhythm. It’s a beautiful moment of peace. But if you’ve been through this before, you know it won’t last forever. Soon enough, your once-sleepy newborn will transform into an alert, wiggly, and curious little human who is eager to engage with the world. And when that happens, you might find yourself wondering: What am I supposed to do with this child?

The good news? There are simple, brain-boosting activities you can incorporate into your daily routine that will not only nurture your baby’s development but also make your days more enjoyable and meaningful. Here are some ideas:

Brain-Boosting Activities for Your Growing Baby

1. Talk with Your Baby

Never assume your baby doesn’t understand. Long before they can speak, they are absorbing every word, tone, and facial expression. Narrate your daily activities—whether you're changing a diaper, making a cup of tea, or folding laundry. Describe what you see, what you’re doing, and even how you feel. This constant exposure to language lays the foundation for their speech and cognitive development.

2. Engage in Sensory Play

Babies learn best through their senses—touch, sight, smell, sound, and taste. Simple sensory experiences, like letting your baby stay a little longer in the bath to explore the feeling of water, walking outdoors so they can take in new sights and sounds, or offering safe textures to touch, help develop their brain connections. Be intentional about creating sensory-rich moments throughout the day.

3. Read Books Together

Reading is one of the most powerful tools for language development. Even if your baby doesn’t understand the words yet, hearing your voice and seeing the rhythm of sentences helps them build early literacy skills. Plus, books expose them to a variety of words and sounds they might not hear in everyday conversations.

4. Be Mindful of Patterns

It’s easy to slip into the habit of seeing your baby as an interruption to your schedule rather than an active participant in your day. Resist the urge to feel frustrated when your baby does what babies do—pulling things, scattering toys, not napping when you’d hoped. Instead of fighting it, embrace the moment. Shift your perspective to view these instances as opportunities to connect, teach, and engage rather than obstacles.

5. Invest in Open-Ended Toys

Open-ended toys are those that can be used in multiple ways—building blocks, stacking cups, wooden animals, or scarves for pretend play. These toys grow with your child and encourage creativity, problem-solving, and independent play. Unlike single-purpose toys, open-ended ones offer endless possibilities for exploration.

6. Take the Guesswork Out of Play

If you’re feeling overwhelmed about how to incorporate purposeful play into your routine, consider a done-for-you Playriculum. This structured yet flexible play guide helps you engage your little one in meaningful, developmentally appropriate activities without the stress of planning it all yourself. It’s the perfect tool for busy parents who want to nurture their child’s growth through play but don’t have the time to research and create activities from scratch.

Final Thoughts

That peaceful postpartum phase may be fleeting, but with intentional engagement and the right tools, you can make the transition into active babyhood smoother and more fulfilling. Enjoy these moments, lean into play, and remember—you’re not just passing the time; you’re shaping a curious and confident learner.

Ready to make play easier and more intentional? Check out the Playriculum and start integrating effortless, brain-boosting activities into your home today!

Like, how much is too much for me to share for strangers to not feel like they know my kids? 

I wish I could wave a magic wand for people to know how to draw the line and not act like they know my kids in public because of their mother. You know? Instead of just calling their names, ask like you just met them because in reality you just met them. Don't leave the child confused as to why "this person is so excited to see me, I don't even know them"

It's been a hard hurdle to cross and it made me draw into my shell. I know that was not the basis for my blog in the first place. 

It's a place of authenticity, vulnerability and truth about my motherhood journey and how can I share my motherhood journey without oversharing details about my children's lives? That's been where I don't know how to balance it but I will try again. 

I still share about our Homeschool and while that is impactful, I still want to write for the me in motherhood, me that doesn't have friends that they text all the time about what's happening on their journey, me that still relies on Google, me that feels like it's a burden to ask people for anything. I want to still write for her, let her know she's not alone and I'm just trying to find a balance. 

One thing I've kept up though, is my blog goals. I have documented my journey of growing my blog income and I took some time to review my goals for last year. If I tell you that this year was the easiest to review why? 

Lol. I didn't set any goals.

See I was TIRED!!! Mentally, physically and emotionally. I think it's because I had a baby and I still went went went, I was drowning in anxiety and I just wanted it to be over and it was rest that finally did it for me. 

I still made some money. I never in my wildest dream thought that it was possible. I even predicted that in my yearly post and I am grateful for it and it showed me that anything is possible. 

This was what I wrote last year, let's see how I did;

1. I am not traveling with the kids this year (except I get a sponsorship) I didn't travel to anywhere, I didn't get any sponsorship.
2. I am not paying for any course or product to help me "grow" and definitely no more ads class.  I paid o, I paid but I didn't do any Facebook ads class. Hallelujah!
3. I am not pursuing any ambition for this business.  Honestly didn't and I am glad.
4. I will do whatever I want to do at my pace in terms of products and webinars that I really want to create. I created one product and did 2 Webinars. 
5. Above all trusting God with everything. Leaned on him totally

What was I able to achieve this year,

• Instagram grew to 18k Followers
• I was interviewed by BBC News for the 2nd time in my career. 
• I was on the radio 3 times
• Interviewed by Ikeja Records & Lagos Mums
• Spoke at 6 events 
• Trademarked my business 
• Grew our community to 100+ people 
• Add 3 more products 

This year, I want to set some goals only to keep me motivated but I don't want to set goals that will make me anxious and draw me back to the place of "hustling". I will work hard but that hustling mindset, phew! I don't want it again. 

1. Have 1 post that is more vulnerable every month.
2. Visit and review 50 - 60 places with the kids
3. Increase my revenue by marketing the products we already have.
4. Grow my Instagram to 20k - 25k
5. Organize Homeschooling Conversations 
6. Work with 5 major brands within my niche